Hi I’m Dr. Diana Kirschner. Welcome to my Lovein90Days.com website. Like a crusader, I’ve dedicated the last 25+ years of my life to finding the holy grail of love. Armed with an M.A. and a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology, I realized success leaves secrets. This is why I went on my own personal journey of demystifying the elusive mystery of finding true and ever-lasting love. While on this quest I studied happy couples (hard to find, but I did) and apprenticed with Eastern and Western mentors, teachers, other psychologists, self-help gurus and sages, so I could find the secret lessons that would make my heart sing. And finally I “got it!” But most importantly what I learned…
Can Help You Find and Keep The Love of Your Life!
You see, what I discovered and used myself were the definite rules, strategies, and underused personal growth lessons that could put you on the path to healing—and transform any low self esteem, fears, abandonment issues or lack of self-love you might be presently experiencing (which is where it all starts).
This transformation will help you find a heart connection, the romance that colors your life with joy!
I practice what I preach and have used these same techniques to develop a long loving relationship with my best friend and lover, my husband, Sam.
I've also touched on these principles on Oprah, the Today Show, Good Morning America & the Montel Williams Show and as a featured dating expert at Yahoo! Personals.com and Selfgrowth.com among many other sites. My unique relationship advice is based on proven techniques for creating love and romance that I co-developed (See my Wikipedia entry for my academic contributions in the field of love relationships, couples and family therapy). After teaching them to therapists all over the world and running a large therapy clinic, I noticed a high percentage of women and men were getting married, or staying married, happily married, by using these personal growth techniques. After many years of helping many people directly and through teaching other therapists, I began conducting Love in 90 Days workshops and classes that have helped thousands of women find true love. And now I’m excited to share all of that knowledge with you.
This Site
LoveIn90Days.com includes a dating tips blog, many new cutting-edge articles and quizzes on dating and relationship success for women that are based on my four step approach, a Daily Love Affirmation, a Love Advice Forum and on the left side of this page, a sign up box for the LoveIn90Days free love e-tips. It also features an Events section outlining upcoming radio and television appearances as well as speaking engagements and workshops around the country. Finally, I’m very excited about giving you a preview of my new dating book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love, which is coming out in the first week of January, 2009.
Most importantly, this site has been developed so I can have a dialogue with those of you who are courageous enough to make a love relationship a high priority in your lives. My purpose is to help you on your journey as I've been helped on mine.
Be sure to bookmark this site so you can return to it easily and effortlessly. Many readers have told me that they get great value from regular visits to the site.
Dating Tips Blog
I'll be posting the latest techniques, dating tips and relationship advice for successful online and off-line dating, research on love relationships and up-to-the-minute discoveries that can help you create the love you want. I invite you to become regular readers of my dating blog. I’ve created regular video dating blogs as well that are both fun and educational. The blog also includes an RSS feed that you can subscribe to.
Dating and Relationship Articles & Quizzes
Browse the free dating and relationship articles section for valuable information on coping with breakups, dispelling urban love legends, frenemies, dealing with dating anxiety, tips for dating boomers, the dating program of three, coping with affairs, and many many more.
I also invite you to take the Sex & The City Dating Quiz which has helped thousands of people identify and understand their deadly dating pattern. Many women begin here as a first step in overcoming their lack of success in love.
Daily Love Affirmation
I invite you to start each day by visiting the Daily Love Affirmation page. On it you will find a new affirmation that I’ve created to help you on your journey to love. Research has repeatedly shown the power of positive self-talk, which is what most of us call affirmations. Positive affirmations have been used to lower stress levels. People cope more easily when going into new social situations and are less likely to make downward social comparisons when they practice self-affirmations. Participants in one study who said self-affirmations before a new social encounter reduced their thoughts about being rejected, compared with another group that focused on the party and who would be there.
So how do you affirm yourself? You deliberately make positive statements about yourself in your mind and aloud that are inspiring and nourishing. If a statement feels scary, that is good—you are pushing the edges of your growth. If it feels great to think an affirmation, then it is right on target.
Write down your affirmation and post it where you can see it several times daily.
Love Advice Forum
No one succeeds in life alone - and love isn't any different. In my new book, I recommend forming your own group of supportive mentors, called a Team Love and the website provides a Love Advice Forum for this purpose. With a team of peers and Love Mentors (more on that below) working behind the scenes, you can set the stage for lasting true love.
Free Love in 90 Days E-tips
Get started on the Love in 90 Days program immediately by entering your info in the Free Love in 90 Days e-tips box on the left. Here’s just a sample of what you’ll receive:
- The single most important thing you can do to create love.
- How to bust through shyness and create charisma and beauty.
- How to avoid the single biggest mistake singles make.
- The secrets to finding a true love relationship.
You will receive your e-tips every two weeks and there are 11 of them. It’s like taking a mini-course of my dating program so be sure to watch for them and print them out. If you enjoy the information available on this site, you’ll definitely enjoy the free e-tips, so sign up in the box on the left. About 10,000 people already have done so.
About My New Dating Book
My new dating book Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love is a result of requests from women wanting to know the strategies, methods and techniques that I’ve used to help women of all ages find true love. Loaded with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and weekly homework assignments, this revolutionary love book is also an intensely personal journey for each reader. The book guides you along your own path towards self discovery with proven and effective dating advice and tough love. I dispel common misconceptions about love relationships and dating, and share personal stories from women who have successfully completed the Love in 90 Days Program. There's also a chapter devoted to the special issues faced by African-American women, single mothers, and women forty-five and older.
Love in 90 Days is not out until January ’09. But you can click here to preorder at a 20-25% discount right now! To read more about this revolutionary approach to dating, go to the New Dating Book tab.
Comments from students
“Thanks to the Love in 90 Days course I’m dating wonderful, successful men, men I would have thought out of my league before. And now they’re courting little ol' Me. Thank you, Dr. Diana!” ~Lorraine, Administrator
“This course has empowered me to create the love I have always wanted—with myself and with a man!” ~Anne, therapist
“I took a risk and followed your coaching and within less than 90 days I had met the most amazing man who makes my heart sing. Just think about all the single souls that are about to meet the love of their life because of you! I will be forever grateful! God Bless You!” ~ Alex Charish Creator of Exercise for Real People
