Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love
The Revolutionary Approach to Finding True Love
Over the years I received countless inquiries from single women about writing a how-to guide on my work.
Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love is that book.
It contains all the powerful techniques that have helped women fastforward themselves to the love they want. This new dating and love book is fun, savvy and based on the latest research on singles, online dating and healthy relationships.
Loaded with step-by-step instructions, checklists, and weekly homework assignments, this revolutionary love book is also an intensely personal journey for each reader. Love in 90 Days guides you along your own path towards self discovery with proven and effective dating advice and tough love. I dispel common misconceptions about love relationships and dating, and share personal stories from women who have successfully completed the Love in 90 Days Program. There's also a chapter devoted to the special issues faced by African-American women, single mothers, and women forty-five and older.
Table of Contents
Here’s the Table of Contents for Love in 90 Days
Part I. The First Month
- Chapter 1 Your Love in 90 Days Program
- Chapter 2 The Deadly Dating Patterns
- Chapter 3 Dating Three to Find the One
- Chapter 4 Secrets of Rapid Online Dating Success
Part II. The Second Month
- Chapter 5 Finding Love Mentors
- Chapter 6 Discovering and Using Your Diamond Self
- Chapter 7 Field Report on DUDs and STUDs
- Chapter 8 Ditching Deadly Dating Patterns Forever
Part III. The Third Month
- Chapter 9 First-Aid for Heartache
- Chapter 10 Beware of Frenemies
- Chapter 11 Love Secrets Just for You: African-Americans, Single Mothers, College-Educated/Successful or Age 45+ Women
- Chapter 12 How Happy Couples Work: The 8 Habits of Living Love
- Chapter 13 Launch to More Love: Taking Dr. Diana with You
Appendix A:Creating Your Own Team Love
Appendix B:Love in 90 Days Online
As you can see, the book is divided into three monthly sections with a chapter for each week; read one chapter each week and do the assigned exercises and homework. Of course, you can also work at your own pace, speeding the program up or slowing it down.
As long as you use the principles and strategies, there is no wrong way to work the Program.
In the first month you’ll learn to identify your Deadly Dating Patterns, master the Dating Program of Three and use the powerhouse secrets of successful online dating. In month two, you’ll find a master Love Mentor – someone who helps you discover and express your authentic, charismatic Diamond Self; and you’ll learn how to end your dead-end patterns forever. In the third month I’ll share my best prescriptions for healing heartache, show you how to deal with Frenemies (cynics and naysayers in your life), and teach you how to practice the eight habits that healthy couples use to create happily-ever-after relationships.
If this book sounds like it will be helpful to you, please take a moment to preorder Love in 90 Days at a 20-25% discount by clicking below. You will get the discount at either Amazon.com or BarnesAndNoble.com.
When you receive your copy of Love in 90 Days, you will learn:
- About Deadly Dating Patterns which may be ruining your love life
- How to ditch the DUDs (Definitely Unworkable Dudes)
- The unique Dating Program of Three, which helps you attract & date STUDs (Seriously Terrific, Utterly Devoted guys)
- Secrets of rapid online dating success
- How to find a master Love Mentor
- How to discover and nurture your Diamond Self
- The best prescriptions for healing heartache
- How to deal with Frenemies (cynics and naysayers in your life)
- The Eight Habits that healthy couples use to create happily-ever-after relationships
- How-to dating success tips for single mothers, very successful/educated women, African-Americans, & women age 45+
In fact, let’s look a little more closely right now at four of these dating issues:
- Identify and Eliminate Deadly Dating Patterns
- Learn and Master the Dating Program of Three
- Discover and Nurture Your "Diamond Self"
- Find and Work With Love Mentors
Identify and Eliminate Deadly Dating Patterns
Love in 90 Days details thirteen common deadly dating patterns, of which four correspond with the Sex & the City heroines. Chances are most women are familiar with more than one. Whether always lusting after unavailable men, settling for a man who provides security and companionship but no sparks, or getting lumped in as "one of the guys," these dating habits short circuit women's romantic lives. Using real-life examples to illustrate each pitfall, the new dating guide identifies warning signs and presents exercises that have helped women break free from these dead-end behaviors.
Learn and Master the Dating Program of Three
The Dating Program of Three safeguards women against the dangers of love addiction - falling too fast and too hard, usually for the wrong man - by requiring them to date at least three men at once. Following the rules of the Dating Program of Three also helps women boost their self-esteem and open themselves up to the possibility of men who may not be their usual "type." Love in 90 Days provides dozens of tips for finding men to date, including secrets to successful online dating (music stars, writers, and millionaires all date online), advice on flirting, and homework assignments.
Discover and Nurture Your "Diamond Self"
Dr. Diana describes the "Diamond Self" as a woman's most dynamic, self-loving, and passionate identity. By eradicating negative thoughts and behaviors, women can re-discover their authentic selves - freeing them to live in the moment, and lay the foundation for lasting, real love. With concrete steps, dating tips, and lots of encouragement, the book shows women how to face their fears and present their best selves to the world - opening up both dating opportunities and a path to personal growth.
Find and Work With Love Mentors
Love Mentors are meant to be cheerleaders, sounding boards, and accountability partners for women as they work through the Love in 90 Days Program. No one succeeds in life alone - and love isn't any different. In the book, Dr. Diana suggests choosing Love Mentors who have been successful in love relationships, or who can provide deep emotional support or even help with personal style. She also recommends forming your own group of supportive mentors, called a Team Love and the website provides a Love Advice Forum for this purpose. With Dr. Diana and a team of peers and Love Mentors working behind the scenes, women can set the stage for lasting love.
Love in 90 Days is not out until January ’09. But you can preorder at a 20-25% discount right now! So start the New Year out right by giving yourself or someone you love the gift of knowledge, knowledge that can change your love and dating life.
Advance praise for Love in 90 Days
"Are you just thinking about getting back into dating? Or is your current dating strategy getting you nowhere? Maybe you’re with a guy now and wondering if he’s “The One?” Or are you in a relationship now that you know deep inside is failing? No matter what is happening in your love life, Love in 90 Days is for you. Grab this book now. It truly rocks!” ~Steve Nakamoto, Writers Digest award-winning author of Men are Like Fish; What Every Women Needs to Know about Catching a Man
“A funny, wise, emotionally generous and happily married woman, Dr. Diana Kirschner is obviously an expert at helping single women weed out the frogs to find princes to wed. Ignore her smart advice at your own peril.” ~Susan Shapiro, author of Secrets of A Fix-Up Fanatic
"When Dr. Kirschner came up with Love In 90 Days, I was skeptical. But then I read it and it makes complete sense because she gives you the structure and the "some place to start" we all need. Finding true love is about preparation and if you can follow a map or read a recipe then you can do this! Dr. D gets to the point and lays it out clearly so you don't have to over-think it.” ~Steve Santagati, Author of the NY Times best seller, The Manual
