Five Secrets to Finding True Love: The Dating Program of Three

May 4, 2010

Five Secrets to Finding True Love: The Dating Program of Three By Dr. Diana Kirschner The best strategy you can use to succeed in finding true love is the Dating Program of Three. I have taught this dating and relationship approach to therapists, clients and students for more than 25 years and it has resulted [...]

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Dating Advice & Love Gurus Panel

May 3, 2010

Learn how to How to Attract and Keep Real Love on at 7 pm Monday, May 10 at Borders Columbus Circle in New York City with 5 bestselling love gurus, who have helped millions of women and men find and enjoy romance. At the May 10 event live in New York City, you will get [...]

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Dating Advice for Women-Mother’s Day Tips for Moms & Adult Children

April 21, 2010

In this dating advice for women Series I wanted to address the key relationship that is the mother-child bond.  Mother’s Day is coming up and if there is turmoil or stress in this key relationship, it can interfere with your dating life big time.  So here are some tips for Moms and Adult Children: As [...]

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Dating Advice for Women-Is Marriage Toxic to Mental Health?

April 14, 2010

In my dating advice for women series we have been looking at whether marriage is good or toxic for women.  Let’s look at the impact of marriage on psychological well-being or mental health.  Specifically, we’ll look closely at depression because it affects about 20 million adults in the U.S. alone and is therefore one of [...]

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Dating Advice for Women–Is Marriage a Good Thing?

April 13, 2010

So let’s say you’ve been following  my Dating Advice for Women, had “The Talk” and worked through the usual ups and downs of the commitment process. You’ve even gone so far that marriage looks like the next step and he’s willing, if not eager, to go for it. But wait, as they say, there’s more! [...]

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My Date Him or Dump Him Quiz on The Today Show

February 19, 2010

I had so much fun with Hoda and Kathie Lee giving them a Date Him or Dump Him Quiz this morning on The Today Show—based on the new chapter, Dating Games Men Play, in the paperback version of Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love!!! Check out the segment [...]

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Dating Games Men Play: The New Ager

February 10, 2010

I’m so excited that the paperback of Love in 90 Days is out! And the best news for all you readers is a whole chapter on Dating Games Men Play. By the time you finish it I hope you have many ‘Aha experiences in understanding and being clear about these patterns.  Armed with this knowledge you can quickly [...]

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Valentine’s Day Flowers For You!!!

February 9, 2010

Here is an awesome giveaway for one of you lucky readers!!!  1-800-FLOWERS.COM is giving away one of my favorite bouquets, the Lotsa Love arrangement. Here’s what it looks like: You can also view it on the 1-800-flowers.com site here: http://ww11.1800flowers.com/product.do?baseCode=17985&dataset=1011&cm_cid=d1011. They also offer a free weekday shipping collection: http://www.1800flowers.com/refer.do?r=bloggers&d=10388. Write a short comment about why [...]

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Dr. Diana Kirschner on Dating Games Men Play on The Today Show Feb 19

February 9, 2010

Dr. Diana Kirschner will be featured in a Today Show segment on Dating Games Men Play, based on the new chapter in the paperback version of her best-selling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days.  Friday, February 19.  Don’t miss it!!

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Singles Mixer & Cool Workshop in NYC

February 9, 2010

SINGLES MIXER Plus Bonfire of Past Hurts Workshop & Book-Signing with Dr. Diana Kirschner In this workshop you meet personally with Dr. Diana Kirschner, one of the nation’s leading authorities on love, frequent guest on the Today Show and author of the bestelling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding [...]

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Dating Games Men Play: Is It Really All About Sex?

February 1, 2010

Scads of women have been highly disappointed to sleep with a new guy one night only to wake up and find that he has disappeared. What is up with men?  Are they really only after sex?  TV ads, sitcoms, reality shows and celebrity magazines seem to tell us so.  There are guys in commercials chasing [...]

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Want True Love? Don’t Miss These Life-Changing Events in NYC!!

January 12, 2010

I am so excited about the Feb launch of the paperback version of Love in 90 Days with a brand new chapter on Dating Games Men Play that I have arranged for three dynamite singles events in NYC that can totally transform your dating and love life!!!! Register, mark your calendar and come join me!!! [...]

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Dating & Mating Advice: It’s Better to Wait to Have Sex

January 6, 2010

A  mathematician and economist used game theory in a research that shows that a longer courtship before having sex allows the male to show that he is “good” from the female’s vantage point (“goodness” defined as his willingness to care for young after mating).  The study, by Seymour and Sozou, is titled “Duration of courtship [...]

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Three Steps to Finding True Love: The 2010 Dating Plan

January 1, 2010

OK.  There are now according to the US Census Bureau at least 92 million single Americans.  That is a whole lotta potential partners!  High school and college alum groups and social networking sites like Facebook are bringing singles together online  right and left.  Online dating is booming–the Pew Internet & American Life Project’s online dating [...]

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Dating Advice for Women: Why Men Fear Commitment

December 27, 2009

Do you ever feel that down deep men are afraid of women?  Like they give off these vibes of discomfort, uneasiness, or anxiety about relating to their partners?  Like they can never understand or please us? Yet, it also seems that it’s critically important that they make us happy? Well you are picking up on [...]

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Dating Advice for the Holidays & Beyond

December 21, 2009

If you are single and feeling lonely at holiday time, I have great dating tips for you!!! Get a move on.  Go for a brisk walk, a little hike in the woods, play in the snow, take a walking tour of the holiday lights in your neighborhood, hit the gym.  Just give yourself a boost [...]

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Want a Dating Coach? Love Mentoring Just for You!

December 11, 2009

“Some people come into our lives and quickly go.  Some stay for a while and leave footprints on our heart and we are never, ever the same.” ~ Anonymous What is the most important thing you can do to amp up your dating and  love life?  Get coaching from Love Mentors!  These are people who [...]

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Relationship Advice Warning: Too Much Support Can Harm Your Marriage!

November 30, 2009

Too much of a good thing is not necessarily good when it comes to the relationship between you and your spouse! Recently a research study on newly married couples done by the University of Iowa showed that providing too much support in the form of advice, emotional comfort, confidence-boosting and financial/material help is associated with [...]

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Dating Advice and Secret Flirting Tips

November 28, 2009

Flirting is an art unto itself.  Sometimes the simplest acts communicate the most!  Here is a video where  my assistant video pup, Madison, helps me demonstrate secret flirting tips that can work well with the next hottie you encounter! By the way, this video has over 250,000 views and is one of the most popular [...]

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Flame Out, Crumbs & Not-Perfect-I’ll-Pass Deadly Dating Patterns & What To Do About Them

November 19, 2009

Deadly Dating Patterns are ways of dating that simply do not serve you–habitual, self-sabotaging patterns that do not get you the love you really want.  Three common ones are “The Flame Out,” “Crumbs,” and “Not-Perfect-I’ll Pass.”  In the Flame Out you fall in too deep and too soon with a new hottie–it’s all great…that is [...]

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Love in 90 Days Bootcamp

November 6, 2009

“Love in 90 Days Bootcamp” Be sure to checkout this short film. Fun and insightful! It’s the first training week (7 webisodes) for a group of six single women who are learning how to find love in 90 days. Can it be done?

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Dating Advice and Wearing Red

November 5, 2009

Howdy! Biology has it’s own logic, that’s for sure!  Here’s a video dating blog on the latest research on colors and attracting men.  In a series of studies, women shown wearing red were rated as significantly more desirable by men than the same women wearing other colors.  While this amorous effect may be societal conditioning, [...]

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Sex and the City Dating Quiz

November 4, 2009

Sex and the City Dating Quiz Get your free customized Sex and the City Dating Type & Love Advice Report to help you on the road to love. Is your love life more like Carrie’s, Samantha’s, Charlotte’s or Miranda’s? Click Here to find out now.

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Find New Love This Year

November 4, 2009

Find New Love This Year The 2009 Dating Plan New Year’s Eve is coming fast. You’ll blow the horns, make a few toasts and get streamers in your hair. It’ll be another New Year’s Party with no one you really want to kiss at midnight. No love to share it all with. Looking forward to [...]

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Beware of Frenemies

November 4, 2009

Beware of Frenemies These So-Called Friends Might Be Your Biggest Roadblocks to Romance In the Sex & the City movie, Miranda functions as a friend-turned-Frenemy and helps derail her friend’s dream wedding. At a strategic point in the upcoming nuptials she opens her mouth and actually puts down the idea of marriage to the commitment-phobic [...]

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Four “Sex & the City” Dating Types:

November 4, 2009

Four “Sex & the City” Dating Types Are you more like Carrie, Samantha, Miranda or Charlotte? There are four common Deadly Dating patterns that single women struggle with: Crumbs, Chase Me, Not Perfect-I’ll Pass and Safety Net. The Sex & the City characters, Carrie, Samantha, Charlotte and Miranda, are good examples of women who dealt [...]

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Four Keys to Creating True Love

November 4, 2009

Four Keys to Creating True Love By Dr. Diana Kirschner “All happy families resemble one another.  Each unhappy family is unique in its grief.” ~Tolstoy, Anna Karenina Personal excellence in your love relationship is not achieved by reading couples love advice or self-help books or dumping the problem partner you’re with and going on to [...]

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Dating Advice: Five Ways to Cope with the Holidays

November 4, 2009

Dating Advice: Five Ways to Cope with the Holidays By Dr. Diana Kirschner Thanksgiving is coming fast.  Then Christmas and Hanukkah.  Are you doomed to a miserable holiday if your relatives drive you crazy?  What if you are just introducing your family to a serious date, someone who could be the One?  Does Aunt Millie [...]

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Good Morning America

October 26, 2009

Dating and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner appeared on Good Morning America (ABC) discussing what to do when your spouse cheats.

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NBC

October 25, 2009

Psychologist, dating and relationship expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, has appeared many times on NBC with hosts Hoda Kotb and Kathie Lee Gifford on the Today Show.   She presented love advice based on her bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days., and addressed topics including: how to deal with lying, recovering from the loss of [...]

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ABC

October 22, 2009

Dating and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner appeared on Good Morning America (ABC) discussing what to do when your spouse cheats.

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PBS

October 21, 2009

Dr. Diana Kirschner, Renowned Author and Psychologist, Launches “Finding Your Own True Love” TV Special for PBS   “The Beatles said it best: All you need is love. But if you are a single woman over 45, just how do you find a loving partner and make it last?  The instructions, the lessons, the users’ [...]

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Bonny Albo

October 21, 2009

A wonderful addition to any single woman’s library…I was thrilled with how many times Dr. Diana exceeded my expectations…Chapter Two (the Deadly Dating Patterns) is mandatory reading.

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CBS

October 20, 2009

Psychologist and love expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, has been interviewed on the CBS Early Show on dating tips and relationship advice for singles and how to find true love using the approach in her bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days.

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Today

October 19, 2009

Psychologist and love expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, has been interviewed numerous times on the Today Show (NBC). Among the topics she has covered are: dating tips and relationship advice for singles; the principles of finding true love using her bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days.; why new love is addictive, how to rekindle [...]

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NPR

October 18, 2009

Psychologist and dating expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, has been interviewed on NPR on single women and happiness. Love and dating expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, has been interviewed in The New York Times on giving singles love advice at a “Speed-Shrinking” event.

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The New York Times

October 17, 2009
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Steve Santagati

October 16, 2009

When Dr. Kirschner came up with Love In 90 Days, I was skeptical. But then I read it and it makes complete sense because she gives you the structure and the “some place to start” we all need. Finding true love is about preparation and if you can follow a map or read a recipe [...]

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Susan Shapiro

October 14, 2009

A funny, wise, emotionally generous and happily married woman, Dr. Diana Kirschner is obviously an expert at helping single women weed out the frogs to find princes to wed. Ignore her smart advice at your own peril.

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Steve Nakamoto

October 13, 2009

Are you just thinking about getting back into dating? Or is your current dating strategy getting you nowhere? Maybe you’re with a guy now and wondering if he’s “The One?” Or are you in a relationship now that you know deep inside is failing? No matter what is happening in your love life, Love in [...]

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People Magazine

October 6, 2009

Love and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, author of the bestselling book, Love in 90 Days, was interviewed in People about mental illness and the relationship problems of celebrities.

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Oprah

October 6, 2009

Dating and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner appeared on Oprah discussing how an engaged couple can successfully handle in-laws and their control issues at the delicate time of preparing for the wedding.

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90 Day Love Challenge

October 5, 2009

90 Day Love Challenge FOX TV 12-week Dating Series with Dr. Diana Kirschner. This series aired on FOX’s Morning Show with Mike and Juliet. See weekly descriptions below. Show 1 – Jan 8, 2009 – FOX TV – “90 Day Love Challenge” The 90 Day Love Challenge starts! Mike and Juliet meet Dr. Diana Kirschner, [...]

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Nightline

October 5, 2009

Dating and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner appeared on Nightline discussing the dynamics of powerful politicians who cheat on their wives.

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Five Secrets to Finding True Love: The Dating Program of 3

October 3, 2009

The best strategy you can use to succeed in finding true love is the Dating Program of Three. I have taught this dating and relationship approach to therapists, clients and students for more than 25 years and it has resulted in great success. In my new book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to [...]

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My PBS Show “Finding Your Own True Love” Airs in August

August 1, 2009

Hi, Wanted to alert you that my PBS Pledge Special will start airing again in August! Saturday, August 1st in Tulsa & Oklahoma City @ 1:30 CT on KOEDDT2 & KETAD2. Plus, numerous airings in Washington DC on WHUT, including August 8 @ 12:30 PM, the 14th @ 10:30 PM & the 15th at 11 [...]

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Okay to Kiss? Breath Check Info

July 3, 2009

Here is intriguing info on the “OKay to Kiss” Breath Test, by guest blogger Gavin Nachbar: Ahh the dreaded breath check. Whether it’s the, “Here, how does my breath smell?” friend check, or the puff into your cupped hands check, one way or another, keeping tabs on your breath throughout a date has become a [...]

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Discussing the State of Marriage on the Today Show

June 18, 2009

This Tuesday I was on the Today Show with Woman’s Day Magazine Health Editor, Amy Brightfield discussing, marriage and if there really is a happily ever after. Woman’s Day and AOL Living surveyed more than 35,000 women to find out how they feel about their husbands and marriages. The results? Wedded bliss isn’t always so [...]

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Guest Blogger: Tammie Reed Gives Us Her Thoughts & Insights on Dating and Finding Love

June 11, 2009

Hi! Here is a guest post from Tammie Reed, the host of the radio show www.talking withtammie.com I think that dating is much harder to do now with internet and all things media. The young people are all about right now and don’t fully understand that relationships take time. Noone wants to get to know [...]

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A Love Ritual From My Guest Blogger, Barbara Biziou

June 8, 2009

Hi! Self-love & caretaking set the stage for love with a truly great partner. Here is a fabulous guest post on falling in love with yourself from the gifted Barbara Biziou: A Ritual for Summer: Falling in Love with Yourself ~Begin with a scent that touches your heart. The scents of oils, herbs, flowers, or [...]

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Harness the Power of Self-Affirmations & PBS Pledge Show – Special Offer!!

June 1, 2009

Hi! In my new PBS Pledge Special, Finding Your Own True Love (airing June 3-10 in Los Angeles & Corpus Christi) I focus on the importance of loving self affirmations for dating success. Research has repeatedly shown the power of positive self-talk, which is what most of us call affirmations. Positive affirmations have been used [...]

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My Author Friend & I Are Going Zany During Book Expo America This Week

May 27, 2009

For this important week in publishing — during which Book Expo America takes place — my fun author friend, Connie Bennett, and I are playfully going out on a limb to drum up interest in our books. Here’s a press release that’s going out to the media today. Authors Develop Zany, Outrageous Marketing Gimmicks to [...]

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Oh What a Wonderful Feeling…Sugar & Love

May 18, 2009

Hi all! Recently I met the super duper Connie Bennett, author of Sugar Shock, a terrific book on the perils of sugar in your diet –and she asked me to do a personal guest blog for her on sugar and love. I thought you would enjoy it too, so here it is, hot off the [...]

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90 Day Love Challenge Finale on Fox Morning Show

April 6, 2009

Hi! Here is a link to the 90 Day Challenge Finale on Fox’s Morning Show with Mike & Juliet–you can watch a whole recap of how Amelia, my love mentee, used my book, Love in 90 Days to go from being dateless in NYC to having lots of great guys to choose from!! http://www.mandjshow.com/videos/the-ninety-day-love-challenge-finale/ And [...]

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My PBS Show “Finding Your Own True Love” Airs in June

February 27, 2009

Hi, Wanted to alert you that my PBS Pledge Special will start airing again in June! Watch for it and be my guest in a front-row seat at a dynamic, practical and inspirational talk, given for the first time on television, the Finding Your Own True Love Program. Learn about the single most important thing [...]

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MSNBC

February 20, 2009

Relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, author of the bestselling book, Love in 90 Days, was interviewed on MSNBC on whether the “love” shown on reality dating shows is real.

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He’s Just Not That Into You . . . Or Is He?

February 3, 2009

He’s Just Not That Into You, the bestseller-turned-movie starring Jennifer Aniston, debunks the obsessive thoughts single women have about hotties who sweep into and out of their lives. The authors go into excruciating detail about the excuses and stories we make up to justify our fantasies about unavailable men. We waste hours and hours thinking [...]

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Love in 90 Days #1 Dating Book on Amazon

January 30, 2009

Hoda Kotb and I prepare for my Love in 90 Days segment on the Today show this morning. Hi all! Thank you for making my book the #1 dating book on Amazon!!! Here are some photos from the Today Show segment on Love in 90 Days this morning. The top shot is of me and [...]

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About.com

January 25, 2009

Love and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner’s bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days received a glowing review by Bonnie Albo, dating guru at About.com.

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USA Today

January 24, 2009

Love and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner was interviewed in USA Today on the dynamics of attraction, based on her bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days.

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Access Hollywood

January 23, 2009

Love and relationship advice expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, was interviewed on Access Hollywood about mental illness and the relationship problems of celebrities, based on her bestselling dating advice book, Love in 90 Days.

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Cosmopolitan Magazine

January 22, 2009

Psychologist and love expert, Dr. Diana Kirschner, has been interviewed numerous times by Cosmopolitan magazine writers for online and offline articles on dating tips and relationship advice. Her dating advice has been included in articles on romance and texting; how to be irresistible to men; how to attract good guys; why men cheat in the [...]

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Eight Steps to Finding True Love:The 2009 Dating Plan

January 1, 2009

Hi! It’s a brand new year!  And it can be a brand new you, the you who is happily, wildly in love.  You can make a resolution right now, right here as you read this article to find new love. At this moment your chances of meeting the love of your life could be better [...]

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Hello world!

December 24, 2008

Welcome this is the first post. Now it is time to start blogging.

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Its a Great Time for Finding Love (Really)

December 14, 2008

People pull together in crisis time. The current economic downturn is no different! Online dating sites are seeing huge increases in member sign up. For example, in November, Match.com had its largest increase in online daters in the last seven years!! Perfectmatch.com had a 47% increase in the same time period. So there are many [...]

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Finding Your Own True Love

November 18, 2008

Hi all! Well I just taped my PBS pledge special, Finding Your Own True Love, on Sunday and it was awesome!!!! Thanks to all of you who came–you were a gorgeous audience!! I felt truly blessed to be giving this talk/workshop!!! It was thrilling to be “in the zone” and teaching about love. I feel [...]

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Attend the Taping of my PBS Show: Finding Your Own True Love

October 31, 2008

Hi! News Flash!! You can attend the LIVE taping of my PBS special in NYC! My new PBS Pledge Special, Finding Your Own True Love will be a dynamic, practical and inspirational talk on love relationships, dating and finding true love, especially aimed at women over 40. It will be taped Sunday, November 16th at [...]

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Dating Three to Find the One: Part One

October 31, 2008

Hi! I want to start with the Man himself today, so here it is: Love moderately: long love doth so; Too swift arrives as tardy as too slow. ~Shakespeare When it comes to dating, the Bard got it right. Moderation is key. It keeps you from moving too quickly or too slowly when you’re getting [...]

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New Video Dating Blog: Sex, Are Men After Only One Thing?

October 3, 2008

Hi, The good news: I finally figured out how to do a video blog!  Check it out–it’s called “Sex: Are Men After Only One Thing?”  My little Pom puppy was my assistant blogger. Here’s to more love, Dr. Diana Author of Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love Follow me on Twitter [...]

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Online dating–the news is good & getting better!

September 22, 2008

Well it happened. It used to be that most people met their lifetime partners at parties, at work, or by being introduced through their network of family, co-workers and friends. But a recent poll by Harris Interactive shows that your chances of this kind of face-to-face falling-in-love shifted in 2007. Harris did an interactive online [...]

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Dating Advice: Your Mirror Can Actually Help You Feel Good About Your Body!

September 10, 2008

We all know what it is like getting ready for a date or a big event, peering into the mirror and not liking what we see.  The extra pound, a bulge here, a wrinkle there, a zit you can’t get rid of, not to mention hair that absolutely will not cooperate with your brush.  Yes, the mirror often shows [...]

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A New Green Online Dating Site, plus More!

August 28, 2008

Just a quick note to share with you–one of my love students who is in her late 30s is having success at www.planetearthsingles.com  She met a holistic doctor and they are having a great time!  So if you lean towards all things green, personal growth, vegetarianism or spirituality, check it out.  And tell me what results you [...]

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Texting Love Advice & Etiquette

August 21, 2008

  I think texting rocks!  It means that no matter what you are doing you can be in touch with and connected to your loved ones.  Texting has absolutely deepened our love relationships.  Now your “A” level friends, family and lovers can be in a constant secret dialogue with you, even while you are with [...]

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Has Your Love Life Tanked?

August 15, 2008

I was on the Today show last week on a segment about what to do when life doesn’t work out the way you want it to.  It was great fun.  Hoda and Kathie Lee were fantastic, as usual, and I got to meet terrific authors Rene Syler and Amy Cohen and work with the talented [...]

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