Relationship Coaching | Love Mentoring™
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About Love Mentoring®
Are You:
- tired of meeting people who are disappointing–not even in the ballpark?
- uncertain about a relationship & wondering if you have a future together?
- shy with the ones you really want?
- feel stuck in a relationship that disappoints and hurts you?
- attracted to the wrong type of people?
- feeling devastated by a nasty break-up or divorce?
- struggling to get to a COMMITMENT with your current partner?
- unable to find the One?
- meeting great people, only to see them fade away and DISAPPEAR?
Well, doing it all by yourself may not be the best solution. What if I told you that in all walks of life those who have mentors inevitably do way better than those who don’t? Study after study has shown that men and women who are mentored are more successful in their careers. And love is no different.
In fact, what is the most important thing you can do to truly amp up your dating and love life? Get Love Mentoring™!
What is Love Mentoring®?
Love Mentoring is a coaching program that is based on my life’s work as a psychologist and described in the bestseller, Love in 90 Days and in my best-selling new book, Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love. The Program focuses on helping break your dead-end dating patterns, meeting great potential partners and activating your Diamond or best Self. Love Mentoring™ includes reviewing your online photos, optimizing your screenname, headline and profile in order to meet many quality partners. Plus your love mentor will help you find off-line activities where you can meet wonderful partners with little competition. You will be taught exactly how to attract and date three or more quality partners so that ultimately you will find committed passionate love that is just right for you.
Who Are the Love Mentors™?
My Love Mentors are expert coaches who themselves are happily married. So they walk the talk! Each one has a long background in transformational work and is closely supervised by me. Each one is gifted and can help you move forward to the love relationship you really want!
How Do I Get Started?
The best news is, right now, we can give you an introductory 40 minute one-on-one personalized session by phone or Skype with one of our gifted Love Mentors for FREE . Just Click Here to contact me and get your own personal FREE session ASAP, because the time slots are filling up very fast. During your free session, your Mentor will walk you through several different and affordable packages that you can choose from so that you can immediately begin to change your love life.
Here’s a letter from Robin who used Love Mentoring™ to create the relationship she wanted:
“Having a Love Mentor was what allowed me to get married. That guidance helped me get over my tendency to blame the other person and wanting to be right. Nurturing loving guidance combined with a firm hand in letting me know when I was being a spoiled brat allowed me to look at my own patterns from a neutral perspective. I learned that I deserve to be supported on all levels, including financially–that I could have a true reciprocal loving partnership. Our wedding was spectacular and I couldn’t be any happier!” ~Robin, Los Angeles
Now, like Robin, you can talk with expert Love Mentors™ who themselves are happily married. And just like Robin, imagine that 2011 is your year for finding lasting love.
The Love Mentoring™ program can help you go from wondering when or if you will ever meet Mr. or Ms. Right to the security of a fulfilling, lasting relationship.
So just Click Here to contact me and get your FREE 40-minute personalized one-on-one session by phone or Skype ASAP, because the time slots are filling up very fast.
And don’t forget to take advantage of my FREE ongoing support. You can learn EXACTLY how to find and attract the one, how to tell the DUDs from the STUDs, how to go from casual to a real commitment, how to keep the passion going and much much more by subscribing to myDating Tips & Relationship Advice Newsletter, absolutely FREE! Click Here to get started now.
Frequently Asked Questions about Love Mentoring®
1. What is a Love Mentor®? What does she/he do?
A Love Mentor® is a devoted and inspirational coach who: helps you develop self confidence and your own unique charisma and beauty (what I call your Diamond Self Identity); assists you in clarifying exactly what you want in your dating and love life and holds that vision for you; develops a plan for meeting terrific men or moving forward with a guy of interest and helps you implement that plan as needed so that you meet with success. A Love Mentor® provides deep emotional support, advice that works in regard to meeting and engaging great guys off-line and online, constructive feedback and “a swift kick” in the rear end whenever you need it! She is like a practical fairy godmother!
2. Did somebody coin the term “love mentor?” Is this a new concept?
I coined the words “Love Mentor®” and “Love Mentoring®” and I have the trademark for both terms. They refer to coaching on dating and love relationships according to the proven principles in my books, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love and Sealing the Deal: The Love Mentor’s Guide to Lasting Love.
3. What kind of backgrounds/qualifications do your they Love Mentor®s have?
I have 10 Love Mentors™ who work under my supervision. They all have a minimum of a Master’s Degree in a mental health discipline, many years of clinical experience, have been extensively trained by me and have passed my written and an oral exam. Also, they are all in lasting love relationships (they walk their talk).
4. How would an ordinary woman go about finding a love coach? Are there guidelines/criteria for what to look for?
Here are steps you can take to find a love coach in your network:
- Figure out your needs—whether it is emotional support, guidance and knowledge about flirting, how to meet men through off- or online dating or helpful criticism.
- Make a list of all the kind, wise people in life, ones that are successful in love (this is critical—they need to be in a healthy love relationship in order to guide you.) This list could include a good aunt, stepparent, minister, a 12 step sponsor, rabbi, or a dear friend.
If you can’t find one in your network you can also consider hiring a professional Love Mentor™ Simply contact me at http://www.lovein90days.com/coaching/ Right now for a limited time we are offering a free 40-minute intro Love Mentoring® session by phone or Skype.
5. How does one separate phony or incompetent dating coaches from the good ones?
Since this is not a regulated professional field, make sure any dating coach has some training in a mental health discipline as well as in dating coaching (this is quite specialized knowledge!). In addition, ask them if they, themselves, are in a lasting love relationship or marriage.
6. When you say a Love Mentor®? is an inspirational coach, is the person always a trained therapist? Or are love mentors different than therapists? They’re different from matchmakers, right?
There are many dating coaches out there who have very little formal training in any discipline and poor success rates.
My Love Mentors™ have extensive and varied training. They have training as therapists as a base from which to function and understand mentees, but they do not function as therapists. They do not go into past traumas, or handle psychopathology—and they do not simply reflect back what a client is saying—they give very active feedback and advice. Love Mentors™ are forward-looking, validating, instructing change agents who know the road to dating and relationship success. They do not set up women with dates or prospective partners. That is what a matchmaker does.
7. What does a Love Mentor® cost per hour?
There is quite a range, because there are discount packages that include Love Mentoring sessions plus email Q & A backup and complete review and optimization of your online materials and photos—plus a rewrite of your online profile.
8. Is love coaching a fairly new concept?
Untrained dating coaches have been around for years.
9. Do you have any testimonials about love matches, marriages, and/or permanent relationships you have made, or that your mentors have made?
We have numerous testimonials about women having great success in dating and meeting a wonderful partner. For example, my love mentoring student, Midge Woolsey, who was the on-air PBS Pledge Show host for my PBS Special, Finding Your Own True Love, was a women in her fifties who got married for the first time to an amazing guy. Our mentoring journey is beautifully described in this NY Times article http://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/08/fashion/weddings/08woolsey.html?_r=1
10. You mentioned that coaching about dating is a very specialized area. Can you add any details about what in particular such an expert has to know or do?
Love Mentors™ have specialized knowledge about: the research on the psychology of men and the nature of attraction; how to overcome shyness and build personal charisma and attractiveness in dating; where and how to meet potential partners in your daily life; how to optimize your online photo and profile; which online websites to use and how to use them to meet quality guys; how to flirt with and engage terrific men; how to date a number of men quickly and efficiently in order to find the “gems”; how to optimize the commitment process with the “One” and much more.
So just Click Here to contact me and get your FREE 40-minute personalized one-on-one session by phone or Skype ASAP, because the time slots are filling up very fast.
Wishing you love,
Dr. Diana



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Dear Cathy,
What you are doing now is a great move for self growth and to possibly help your boyfriend to stretch and grow into more of an ability to commit. I would read the sections on “cost of loss” in Sealing the Deal to help guide you –to maximize the possibility that you two can come together in a win-win way. Wishing you great love!
I have been in a relationship for 3.5 years with a guy I am crazy about. I thought we were soul mates. But I have been feeling that I want more in terms of having a live in relationship or even marriage. One of the obstacles is we both own our own homes and neither one of us wants to rent out! And neither of us can sell because of the market. We haven’t broken up, just trying to find our way. My boyfriend says he loves me and I do believe him, but now he says he doesn’t trust me because I asked for time off to “find myself.” I want to come home after work to someone here, and he is fixed on his home and single lifestyle plus his “stuff”… ( he has been a bachelor for 10 years.) It is very confusing. I don’t want to give up on the relationship because we fit together so well. But then again I don’t want to be single with someone here for the next ? years. maybe I should get back into the dating game? Now I am concentrating on “me” and sorting things out, going to a therapist, etc. But what else can I do to resolve my/our differences?
The teleconference ” Relationship Resolution? today with Lisa Wasoski was fantastic. I will be getting your book. I have a whole new light on dating.
Hi Diana,
First of all, there are no dumb questions!!! And when it comes to the heart, it is soooo easy to get stuck in love with someone who is just no good for you. Your situation is a very difficult one. I suggest you have a free phone or Skype consult with one of my expert Love Mentors–you can talk about your situation for 40 minutes one-on-one. If you want to go ahead, go to http://www.lovein90days.com/coaching and sign up so that i can assign you to a great Love Mentor.
Wishing you strength and love!
HI,
THIS IS A DUMB QUESTION FROM A SMART WOMEN. I HAVE BEEN IN AND OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP FOR 18 YRS THROUGHT HIM LIVING WITH SOMEONE 15 YRS ALREADY ON TOP OF THAT 2 1/2 YR WITH SOMEONE ELSE THAT ONE YEAR AGO I FOUND OUT . GOT HIM OUT OF MY SYSTEM WAS SO MAD BECAUSE ALL THE WHILE HE WAS TELLING ME HE WAS SELLING HIS HOUSE TO BE WITH ME. THAN THE 2 1/2 YR RELATIONSHIP WAS ENDED WHEN I FOUND OUT BUT SO MAD WAS DONE HE CAME BACK 4 MONTHS AGO AND NOW IS ON A DATING WEBSITE THAT I FOUND OUT ABOUT BY MISTAKE MY GIRLFRIEND TOLD ME ABOUT HIM ON THERE . I HAVE TO LEAVE HIM AGAIN BUT CANT BEAR THE PAIN THAT THIS KEEPS CAUSING ME I NEED A WAY OUT AND CANT EVEN SEE CLEARLY. HE CAME BACK 4 YRS AGO AFTER A 3 YEAR BREAK FROM EACH OTHER BECAUSE GIRLFRIEND HE WAS LIVING WITH FOUND OUT SAME TIME I FOUND OUT HE WAS LIVING WITH HER . I NEED MY HEART TO STOP FOLLOWING HIM . ANY HELP YOU CAN GIVE IS GREAT …LOST IN LOVE 18 YRS
Thanks Stephen! Wishing you love!
I have read both of your books and recommend them to almost every woman I meet. They in turn are always grateful (when they actually read them). 99% of what you write is correct from a good guys’s point of view. However there are some refinments that you could make that would to you spot on with the mindset of non-player guys like me.
I appreciate and applaud the work that you do to clean up the mess that defines our current dating system.
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