Hi,

Wanted to alert you that my PBS Pledge Special will start airing again in August! Saturday, August 1st in Tulsa & Oklahoma City @ 1:30 CT on KOEDDT2 & KETAD2. Plus, numerous airings in Washington DC on WHUT, including August 8 @ 12:30 PM, the 14th @ 10:30 PM & the 15th at 11 AM. Watch for it and be my guest in a front-row seat at a dynamic, practical and inspirational talk, the Finding Your Own True Love Program.

Learn about the single most important thing you can do to create more love in your life; how single women of any age can find and date fulfilling partners and create great relationships; plus simple steps couples can use to deepen intimacy and create more passion. Based on material from my bestselling book, Love in 90 Days: The Essential Guide to Finding Your Own True Love, this unique show provides four easy-to-apply steps that can transform your life.

In this show learn you can learn how to:

• Break Deadly Dating Patterns that ruin any chance of lasting love
• Create a powerful Love Intention that helps you find love that is just right for you
• Use the Diamond Self exercise that overcomes shyness and enhances self-esteem and charisma
• Empower yourself through the Dating Program of Three
• Find, attract and date terrific men
Please remember to pledge and support your local public TV station!

And please remember to pledge and support your local public TV station.

You won’t want to miss it!
Wishing you love,
Dr. Diana

www.lovein90days.com

Finding Your Own True Love PBS Special

Hi!
In my new PBS Pledge Special, Finding Your Own True Love (airing June 3-10 in Los Angeles & Corpus Christi) I focus on the importance of loving self affirmations for dating success. Research has repeatedly shown the power of positive self-talk, which is what most of us call affirmations. Positive affirmations have been used to: change behavior in under-achieving students; increase nurses’ and doctors’ well-being and lower their stress levels; reduce breast cancer patients’ cortisol levels; and heighten athletic performance. People cope more easily when going into new social situations and are less likely to make downward social comparisons when they practice self-affirmations. Participants in one study that said self-affirmations before a new social encounter reduced their thoughts about being rejected compared with another group that focused on the party and who would be there.

So how do you affirm yourself? You deliberately make positive statements about yourself in your mind and aloud that are inspiring and nourishing. Some examples are: I am lovable; I am a good person; I am a child of God; I am intelligent; I am attractive; I am a great person. Get the engine going until you feel freer and freer to think of and write down whatever comes to mind. If a statement feels scary, that is good-you are pushing the edges of your growth. If it feels great to think an affirmation, then it is right on target. Choosing a thought to put your attention on is generative. I believe that attention is one of the most powerful creative forces at your disposal.

When you make self affirmations, you build on positive experiences from the past and more importantly are programming for new fulfillment in the future. Global or glowing affirmations about yourself don’t necessarily work in the time frame you would like-usually they take much longer. But they do work. Make no mistake about it. The more attention you put on the loving self-declaration, the more quickly it will manifest. But you have to put your attention on it like you would on a mantra-lightly and without attaching to the affirmation too tightly.

When doubts or other negatives arise, treat them as if you were sitting in meditation: observe them without judgment. Notice and acknowledge your self doubts and DO NOT FIGHT THEM. The more you acknowledge the doubts without struggle, the more quickly they will go away. Always return to your affirmation, like you would go back to a mantra after a distracting series of thoughts. Following this method will speed up your progress in creating and living from your loving self-affirmations.

You can be the prime and sole architect of a deliberate and more positive self-concept or identity using self-affirmations. Over time and with this practice, you will release your negative self-talk and delimiting inner beliefs. Together, the inner dialogue and beliefs form what I call the “Disappointing Self.”

The most powerful self-affirmation you can create is to give your most lovable and loving identity, what I call your “Diamond Self,” your most glorious self, a name. While uncomfortable at first, taking on and using this name is an ultimately fun and joyful creative experience. In my courses, some of the names that women have bestowed on themselves are Beloved Mighty Isis; Amazing Grace; Magnificent Star; Sexy Inuit Sea Princess; and Precious Czarina. Embarrassing as it is, you need to practice using your name with your closest friends. Oh, and one more thing: dress the part. Now you can help pull it together by thinking about your new-you name. Here is an email I received from “Goddess Jana” who was re-discovering her own beauty.

“I am a stunner. I just had to tell you that Jon and I went shopping today and bought a dress for tomorrow night. I really should keep taking pictures of myself because I am so hot!”

Finally, there is one more way you can reinforce your positive affirmations and self-appreciation and that is by giving to yourself every day. Every day; no exceptions. Look for new and special treats that you usually deny yourself, experiences you would look forward to. In our culture, women are taught and expected to be generous to everyone but themselves. For a woman to be giving to herself is often considered selfish. So you must break your conditioning and learn to give to yourself especially in areas where you are stingy or withholding. From the smallest acts, like listening to your iPod more and giving your life a soundtrack, getting and wearing those cashmere socks, or splurging on a French manicure; to signing up for pole dancing, singing, or Improv; and up to the largest steps, like painting every day and declaring yourself an artist or buying that condo in the building you’ve been eyeing. Just do it. When you get up each day, use the affirmation, “I give myself what I want and need to be happy.” or “Everything I want is here for me.”

Then, throughout the day, check in with yourself. Take your attention inward and get a sense of how you are feeling. If the feelings are not positive, take a moment to acknowledge them as OK, and then speak kindly to yourself. If you are working on a demanding project, promise yourself a wonderful reward. Tell yourself how much you have accomplished and how well you are doing. Think about what little prize would make work more enjoyable. Heed the Bard’s advice: “Be to yourself as you would to your friend.” When you are more loving and positive with yourself in these ways, you will find that you are relaxed, more self-confident and at ease while dating. You will tend to meet more loving guys on the dating scene and will be ready to create a truly fulfilling love relationship.

You can learn much more about positive self-affirmations by watching my PBS Pledge Special, Finding Your Own True Love this week (schedule is available at http://www.lovein90days.com/diana-kirschner/events-tv-appearances/

Next Airings:
Wed, June 3rd in Los Angeles CALIFORNIA on KVCR at 12:00AM
Wed, June 3rd in Corpus Christi TEXAS on KEDT/DT at 4:00AM
Wed, June 10th in Corpus Christi TEXAS on KEDT/DT at 4:00AM

Please remember to pledge and support your local public TV station!
I am offering a special gift for you or those in your network who pledge $75 or more for Finding Your Own True Love! Anyone who pledges will receive a half hour personal love mentoring consult with me, where they can ask questions and develop a personalized plan for creating love in their lives. Please forward this and let all your LA friends know. There is limited availability!

I have received emails from many women who have told me that watching the show has helped to transform their love lives!!! One woman got (happily) married just 3 months after seeing the show! Now you and/or your friends can get additional help. Simply make your pledge for $75 or more and send the pledge receipt info to me via my contact Dr.Diana page to schedule your own personal consult!

This is an unusual opportunity and I have a limited number of slots that can be filled. So take quick action for yourself!

Wishing you love,
Diana